Three Things Couples Need Right Now

Three Things Couples Need Right Now

There are times when all marriages or relationships are stressful and can feel like they are ‘on the edge’. How couples approach, communicate and treat each other during these more difficult times can sometimes be the difference between a relationship nose-diving, surviving or thriving.

6 Ways COVID-19 is Affecting Relationships

6 Ways COVID-19 is Affecting Relationships

If you’re living mostly in isolation with your partner due to Covid-19 at least one of the following is likely to apply to you.

Baby Friendly Conflict

Baby Friendly Conflict

Having a baby is normally an exciting and joyful time for a couple, so it might be surprising to find that the first year after baby is also a time of more conflict between partners. In fact, a whopping 92% of parents report increased disagreements during this time - and this was BEFORE the current virus crisis!

Emotionally Aware Parenting

Emotionally Aware Parenting

Babies come with intense joy, love and wonder but the responsibilities of caring for them 24/7 is also likely to bring periods of frustration, boredom or loneliness. Add fatigue into the mix and most parents find that the highs are higher and the lows are lower. There’s ways to manage this.

The Smallest Word that Makes the Biggest Difference: "I"

The Smallest Word that Makes the Biggest Difference: "I"

Your relationship with your partner is unique, so it makes sense that how you relate to each other would be unique, too. Your partner knows you intimately and has the power to both hold you up or pull you down like no one else. You have the same power with your partner too.

Is Valentine’s Day good or bad for your relationship?

Is Valentine’s Day good or bad for your relationship?

Valentine’s Day is supposed to be the romantic day of the year, or so we’re led to believe by card manufacturers, chocolatiers, jewellery shops, florists, restaurants and travel brokers! But why is it, and what does it actually mean to you, your partner and for your relationship? We look at the good and bad in our latest blog!

Is Your Relationship Due For A Service?

Is Your Relationship Due For A Service?

Most couples with children are in their relationship for the long haul. And just like anything else you rely on for your happiness and wellbeing, if you want your partnership to go the distance, you need to take time to look at it, look after it, maintain it, protect it - and at times even repair it.

Relationship maintenance is like keeping a car in great working order. There’s no better feeling than having things hum along nicely as you’re holding hands and heading to the horizon together. So, using that analogy, we’ve taken the basic requirements a vehicle needs to stay roadworthy and applied it to a relationship.

Three words you won’t want to hear these holidays if you’re trying to conceive

Three words you won’t want to hear these holidays if you’re trying to conceive

As others talk and reminisce about the year that’s passed and their hopes for the coming twelve months, this can be an incredibly emotional time for you and your partner. Add into the mix that the whole festive period is centred around one of the most religious and well- known pregnancies and birth in the world, you may feel that ache even more intensely particularly if you are asked ‘any news yet?’

Five Relationship Gifts to Give Your Partner This Christmas

Five Relationship Gifts to Give Your Partner This Christmas

Christmas is a time for giving, but no-one ever said it had to cost a fortune! So, this year, why not give your loved ones these five relationship gifts. These gifts don’t break, in fact they can last a lifetime - and your partner will likely love you even more because of them!

Couples at Christmas: Long distance relationships

Couples at Christmas: Long distance relationships

Relationships come in all different shapes and sizes – and sizes, for some couples, includes the travelling distance between them!

Though some couples (even with families) manage to have happy, fulfilling permanent long-distance relationships, on the whole, long distance circumstances when you’re planning a family or have young children are due to commitments one or other of you have elsewhere. This could be due to shift work, work in remote locations, study, deployment, caring for elderly or ill parents or any other of the myriad of factors families live with.

So, how can you make long distance work as a couple and as a family at any time, not just during the holidays?

Couples at Christmas: 6 things every couple should discuss BEFORE the holidays

Couples at Christmas: 6 things every couple should discuss BEFORE the holidays

The Holidays. It’s a time of year that promotes joy, harmony and togetherness. And often arguing,disagreement and falling out over how to actually achieve this!

Discussion, finding areas of agreement and some forward planning can help you both achieve the celebration that’s right for your family.

Here’s 6 key areas you’d do well to discuss NOW in order to enjoy an (almost) stress-free, loving end of year:

House vs. Work

House vs. Work

The thorny issue of housework is hands down the biggest source of conflict in most couple’s first few years of family life. This issue tends to peak around bubs’ three to six month mark, so if you aren’t there already, plan ahead for it.

When Your Sex Needs Differ

When Your Sex Needs Differ

It’s common for couples at ANY life stage to have different libidos, let alone when that particular stage involves intense fatigue, extra stresses and little listening ears. Knowing how to manage this can make this phase more passing than permanent for you and your partner.

US Seed Planting Workshop Tour 2019

US Seed Planting Workshop Tour 2019

It was a cold and rainy morning in June when my husband dropped me at Sydney airport. And so, apart from leaving my family behind, I was looking forward to flying north for a month of Summer in the U.S.

Come and find out who I met and what I got up to!

Book Blog Tour: Next Stop - Blog from Becoming Us Mentor, Barb Suárez

Book Blog Tour: Next Stop - Blog  from Becoming Us Mentor, Barb Suárez

Growing Together Through Differences? Yes, Please.

Elly continues her book blog tour for her new edition of Becoming Us with a fantastic new blog from Barb Suárez. written just for you!

With the kind permission of Barb, Elly is posting it here too!

Sex life after baby - Is anybody doing it?

Sex life after baby - Is anybody doing it?

He wants it - you don’t, or maybe it’s the other way around? Let’s face it, either way, your sex life is likely to suffer when you’ve had a baby – and there are good reasons why. You might not be surprised (and maybe even relieved!) that around 80% of new mothers lose their mojo after they’ve had a baby.