Meet Our Newest Becoming Us Facilitator, Rhiannon Power!

Meet Our Newest Becoming Us Facilitator, Rhiannon Power!

Rhiannon is a Psychologist, the owner and founder of Enlightened Parenthood and mum of two beautiful boys and a precious little girl.

Rhiannon is based in Brisbane and works with parents throughout the Brisbane metro area. Please meet Rhiannon!

6 Ways COVID-19 is Affecting Relationships

6 Ways COVID-19 is Affecting Relationships

If you’re living mostly in isolation with your partner due to Covid-19 at least one of the following is likely to apply to you.

Baby Friendly Conflict

Baby Friendly Conflict

Having a baby is normally an exciting and joyful time for a couple, so it might be surprising to find that the first year after baby is also a time of more conflict between partners. In fact, a whopping 92% of parents report increased disagreements during this time - and this was BEFORE the current virus crisis!

Emotionally Aware Parenting

Emotionally Aware Parenting

Babies come with intense joy, love and wonder but the responsibilities of caring for them 24/7 is also likely to bring periods of frustration, boredom or loneliness. Add fatigue into the mix and most parents find that the highs are higher and the lows are lower. There’s ways to manage this.

The Smallest Word that Makes the Biggest Difference: "I"

The Smallest Word that Makes the Biggest Difference: "I"

Your relationship with your partner is unique, so it makes sense that how you relate to each other would be unique, too. Your partner knows you intimately and has the power to both hold you up or pull you down like no one else. You have the same power with your partner too.

Is Your Relationship Due For A Service?

Is Your Relationship Due For A Service?

Most couples with children are in their relationship for the long haul. And just like anything else you rely on for your happiness and wellbeing, if you want your partnership to go the distance, you need to take time to look at it, look after it, maintain it, protect it - and at times even repair it.

Relationship maintenance is like keeping a car in great working order. There’s no better feeling than having things hum along nicely as you’re holding hands and heading to the horizon together. So, using that analogy, we’ve taken the basic requirements a vehicle needs to stay roadworthy and applied it to a relationship.

Nine ways to plan for your first Christmas with baby.

Nine ways to plan for your first Christmas with baby.

While the festive period is a unique time of year for most families, whether an extended family, blended family or a single parent family, if you’re a brand new parent of a newborn or even an 11 month old, this is your first Christmas together as a family of three so it’s going to be an extra special holiday. You’ll want it to be memorable for all the right reasons – and that has a lot to do with your expectations.

Couples at Christmas: 6 things every couple should discuss BEFORE the holidays

Couples at Christmas: 6 things every couple should discuss BEFORE the holidays

The Holidays. It’s a time of year that promotes joy, harmony and togetherness. And often arguing,disagreement and falling out over how to actually achieve this!

Discussion, finding areas of agreement and some forward planning can help you both achieve the celebration that’s right for your family.

Here’s 6 key areas you’d do well to discuss NOW in order to enjoy an (almost) stress-free, loving end of year:

House vs. Work

House vs. Work

The thorny issue of housework is hands down the biggest source of conflict in most couple’s first few years of family life. This issue tends to peak around bubs’ three to six month mark, so if you aren’t there already, plan ahead for it.

When Your Sex Needs Differ

When Your Sex Needs Differ

It’s common for couples at ANY life stage to have different libidos, let alone when that particular stage involves intense fatigue, extra stresses and little listening ears. Knowing how to manage this can make this phase more passing than permanent for you and your partner.

When 'Perfect' Isn't So Good

When 'Perfect' Isn't So Good

When we love our partner and baby so much, we naturally want to be the best wife and mother we can be. Many of us leave a career focus behind for a while to do this. But we can also put unnecessary pressure on ourselves (and perhaps our partner) to do more or be more than is really necessary or helpful.

Dad or partner going out and leaving mum at home with the baby

Dad or partner going out and leaving mum at home with the baby

You’re a few months (or years!) into parenthood and life has changed. Big time. But as your partner calls to let you know he’s meeting his mates for their regular Friday Night Drinks (because he’s “worked hard all week”), you realise things haven’t changed nearly as much for him as they have for you and you can’t help but want to scratch his eyes out. How do you cope with your partner still having an active social life when you’re stuck at home with bub? Should he give it up? Cut back? Or should you just call the babysitter and join him?

Book Blog Tour: Next Stop - Blog from Becoming Us Mentor, Barb Suárez

Book Blog Tour: Next Stop - Blog  from Becoming Us Mentor, Barb Suárez

Growing Together Through Differences? Yes, Please.

Elly continues her book blog tour for her new edition of Becoming Us with a fantastic new blog from Barb Suárez. written just for you!

With the kind permission of Barb, Elly is posting it here too!

More Fights After Baby? Join the Club!

More Fights After Baby? Join the Club!

Arguing more with a partner can be distressing, especially if you thought having a baby would bring you closer to your partner than before. The truth is parenthood brings couples closer in some ways but pushes them apart in others. The trick is to know how to find your way back to each other.

Did You Notice The Parenthood Gap?

Did You Notice The Parenthood Gap?

While there’s a lot of focus on parenting, there’s something really, really important for parents to know about. It’s called parentHOOD. Expecting parents deserve more preparation for parenthood, and new parents more support and direction through those early weeks and months of family.

Nothing Can Prepare You For Parenthood, Right?

Nothing Can Prepare You For Parenthood, Right?

Parenthood is often described as a journey - but we’re here to tell you that along with all the good stuff, some days can feel more like a wild expedition than a walk in the park! This is why it’s important for you and your partner to prepare yourselves for the most common challenges.