People say nothing can prepare parents
for parenthood, but that’s just not true!

We have a survival guide for couples - and training for professionals.

Parenthood is life-changing. For most couples, it's like an adventure into the unknown. And people say nothing can prepare parents for parenthood, right? But what if you could? Not only for the beginning, but for each and every stage afterwards?

AND in ways that help couples grow their love as they go!

Becoming Us is a new whole person, whole family, whole community approach to parenthood. Becoming Us breaks the journey down into 8 evidence based stages, with each stage supporting the mental, emotional and relationship wellbeing of mothers, fathers, partners and families.

The Becoming Us Professional training is for birth, health, mental health, parent and other helping professionals and students who want to prepare and support parents at any stage of their parenthood adventure, so their whole family can thrive. Currently our live online full Professional training (three levels of training plus optional Certification) is held twice yearly.

Our next Complete Professional Training is on NOW!

Becoming Us FULL Professional Training (Levels 1, 2 & 3):
Become a Seed Planter, Tour Guide & Village Elder
over 14 online sessions.


Level 1: Become a Seed Planter. Learn how to plant powerful seeds to help parents cope with the most common parenthood problems and grow their love with their partner as they go.

Level 2: Become a Parenthood Tour Guide. Discover 8 evidence-based stages of parenthood, how to work with parents in each stage and prepare for the next ones.

Level 3: Become a Village Elder. Struggling couples can have the biggest breakthroughs. Add tools to your toolbox so you know how to support couples through the tough stuff - and when to refer them to another professional in your community.

Becoming Us is a much needed, sensitive, positive and comprehensive approach to the transition into parenthood.
— Professor Jenny Gamble, Head of Midwifery, Griffith University, Queensland
The world needs this.
— Kent Hoffman, Founder, Circle of Security
This is the missing piece. A game-changer for parents and the professionals who care about them.
— Sally Placksin, author of Mothering the New Mother, NYC.

If you’re not ready for the full training, you can choose to enroll in Level I to get started at any time.

Becoming Us Level I Training:
Tilling the Soil and Planting the Seeds
(4 sessions)


What does the 'transition into parenthood' actually mean for couples? Why do some parents find it more challenging than others? Is there a way to prepare expecting parents so it's easier and more enjoyable for all of them? You'll discover the answers to these questions and more.

Following Level I you'll be a Professional Seed Planter. You'll know which seeds to plant that support your clients to grow their love and have practical resources you can use from day one.

If you work with clients only during pre-conception or pregnancy, Level I is for you and you can enrol at any time.